Dogging #2 by Galanga
I Love Dogging
The Chikan Fetish - Part 2
By: galanga
Written on May 30th, 2011
In Part 1 I discussed the “chikan fetish”. Chikaning is rampant in Tokyo and Beijing, so much so that women have simply accepted unwanted groping as part of life in these cities. But how does a man become a chikan?
Pubescent boys are naturally curious about the “feel” of girl skin. They crave it at an age when they haven’t started getting it. They masturbate to imagined fantasies of its texture, its warmth, the softness of the flesh under it. Having not yet actually felt it at this young age, their fantasies tend to be larger than life. The imagine the feel of a thigh or a breast is enough to bring them to orgasm.
Masturbation reinforces this subconscious misconception though a process called “respondent conditioning”. The boy associates the fantasy of touching a girl’s thigh or breast with the climb to orgasm. Although during masturbation the actual stimulus is the stroking of the penis, the boy suspends reality choosing to focus on the more psychologically titillating fantasy. After many years of this, the boy’s brain has been conditioned to associate the touching of a girl’s thigh or breast with the reward of climbing to orgasm.
Most boys grow out of this at about age 14 or 15. This is when their interest in girls starts to incorporate social aspects. Masturbation fantasies focus less on sexual acts and more on loving interactions, and many boys will start dating at that age. However, some boys, particularly those with low social skills or low self image, become addicted to the pleasure of masturbation using the “wonder” of girl skin as fodder. As the hormones of puberty increase, the addiction increases. By about age 19 or 20, these boys are now fully conditioned to associate touching thighs and breasts with orgasm.
Why thighs and breasts? Pussy, ass, even lips are considered more erogenous, right? Well, yes, but these boys don’t know that. Societal norms preclude women from walking around with ass and pussy exposed. So women dress to flaunt thigh and breast skin, and society ingrains in a boy’s head that this is “sexy”. Boys can see the texture, the smoothness, the shape, and even how these properties change on the journey from the knee upwards, into a region beyond their imagination. Pussy is something incomprehensible to them.
Since thigh skin covers more surface area than breasts, women expose as much below the waist as possible. Moreover, women work hard to make their thighs maximally titillating by shaving them smooth, moisturizing the skin, exercising to remove cellulite and excess fat, etc. Casual fashion dictates clothing that not only expose as much thigh flesh as possible, but are cut to emphasize how accessible this skin is to touch, with miniskirts that flair out at the bottom, or shorts that allow a tiny bit of butt cheek to peek out.
These are the boys that grow into men who grope women in crowded environments such as subways, busses, or outdoor concerts. By adulthood, they are so conditioned to associate feeling up a woman’s thigh with orgasm that doing this becomes the main focus of their sex life. But here’s the catch – the most powerful fantasies are those mixed with an element of reality. These boys never had girls offer anything to them, and it seemed unreal that such an offer would ever happen. So in their masturbation fantasies the thigh touching was forced, hidden, or otherwise without the girl’s consent or knowledge. In the fantasy she was either sleeping or drugged or somehow unaware. When these men eventually find a woman who offers herself, the feel of her thigh is anticlimactic. The reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy, so they resort back to their fantasy, for it never let them down.
Thus, these men thrive on sneaking feel-ups of a woman’s thigh without her consent or knowledge. They begin acting on this at about age 18. The “hunt” for accessible thigh becomes their form of foreplay, and the “sneakiness” becomes as thrilling as the conquest itself. They ride crowded subways during rush hour seeking women wearing short skirts or shorts with bare legs. They use the crush of the crowd to press against the target, then take in her thigh skin with one or two fingers. They use the female’s unawareness to trigger the excitement of their conditioned fantasy, and move higher and higher on the leg as a form of sexual escalation.
The clinical term for this condition is called “frotteurism”. The thrill of an encounter for men with frotteurism is so intense that a small few of them can spontaneously climax just from the touching, especially if he could get his whole hand her thigh without her knowing it. But most of them will need to masturbate while doing it, and most of these men have cut-out pockets in their pants for that purpose. Many of these men induce orgasm by pressing against the woman’s backside while feeling her legs up. This technique is especially suited for packed subway cars, as the rocking motion of the train can act to mask the “pumping” action against the woman’s butt.
The drive to act on this condition is so strong that these men spend all day hunting for a clandestine feel-up, even if it only lasts a half second. Summer is heaven for these men. On a typical summer day, a frotteur will “hit” 10-20 women before allowing himself an orgasm.
As much as they are sexual desperados, frotteurs are rarely dangerous. They are mostly cowards and will bolt at the slightest reaction from the target. For this reason, they can be a safe source of excitement for women with a complimentary fetish, and that is the subject of Part 3.
