Dogging #3 by Galanga
The Chikan Fetish - Part 3
By: galanga
Written on May 30th, 2011
Ok, we covered the psychology of the male frotteur in Part 2, so now, girls, let’s have some fun with these guys. Any large, crowded city will have frotteurs riding the subways. New York City has a lot of them, especially on popular rush hour lines. However, a trip to Tokyo or Beijing is warranted if you really want to indulge your passive rape fetish. In these cities, chikaning is so out of control women have come to accept it as part of riding the subways. Combine that with the Asian cultural tenet that women be sexually timid, and you have a frotteur’s dream. For very sensitive women, there are “women only” subway cars. In NYC a frotteur will go as far as feel your legs us, but usually stop at the hemline. In Tokyo the chikans will usually go up under the hemline, and some of the bolder chikans will actually take out the penis and stroke it along the girls’ legs.
Although most people can understand how some men can get off on sneaking free feels on girls, it is generally harder to understand how women can get off by being the “victim” of such molestation. Indeed, the female side of this fetish is very rare compared to the number of men involved. Psychologists call this “gregomulcia”. And like all fetishes, having gregomulcia satisfied can get you off big. Let’s dig a little deeper into what frotteurism and gregomulcia is all about.
The frotteur, or chikan as they are sometimes called, has a form of “rape fantasy” from the male point of view. They get off on feeling you up in a sneaky manner such that you aren’t aware of the “molestation”. They get off on escalating the groping as far as your unawareness will allow. So if you’re a female with a complimentary “rape fetish”, you can get a lot of excitement out of an encounter with a chikan … if you do it right – and doing it right means feeding into the psychology of their fetish. So, if you haven’t already done so, I urge you to read Part 1 of this post. Also, if you might be interested in this form of recreational sex, read my posts on dogging and how that activity relates to the psychology of the rape fetish.
By functionality, chkaning (anonymous frotteurism) is a leg thing. Leg skin is ideal for the chikan for several reasons. First, it is very erotic to touch. Second, in a packed crowd legs are hidden from view. With nothing more than a poker face, a hand can grope up and down a leg without being spotted beneath shoulder level. Third, leg skin has fewer nerve endings than fingers, hands, or face skin, and in the crush of a crowd the sensation of a hand on a leg is easily masked by random motions of the crowd around the target girl. Under the right circumstances a skilled chikan can quickly get an entire hand fully on the back of a thigh without the girl being aware of it. Fourth, the leg is a psychological sexual treasure like no other part of the body, since it transitions from the relative innocence at the knee upwards to the extreme sexuality of the vagina at its upper apex. And the feel of the skin changes steadily as you approach the more erogenous regions, becoming softer, smoother, and warmer. Moreover, there is the added psychological kick of having to “invade” the girl by having to move up under her skirt to get to those regions, greatly contributing to the excitement of the chikan’s rape fetish.
General principle – the more you play into HIS rape fetish, the more exciting it will be for YOU. So always remember this basic principle – you must never let on that you know what he’s doing. Always allow him to think that you are oblivious to his “molesting” you. Keeping this ruse while posturing yourself into the ultimate of sexual availability will drive him to an arousal level approaching insanity, and YOU will feel this excitement.
Ok, so the trick is “posturing yourself into the ultimate of sexual availability” without letting on that you are doing so deliberately. And here’s how you do that using the subway as the venue. You’ll need to pick a subway line that’s popular with chikans. My favorite is the NYC A-express between 59th and 125th street. During morning and afternoon rush hours this train is packed like sardines and loaded with chikans.
New York City subways can get very crowded during rush hour
A. Before getting on the subway car
1. First you need the proper attire. Miniskirt with bare legs will do the trick. Don’t worry about accessing breast skin because all chikan action is necessarily waist down. But not too short. He has to be required to dare to reach up under the miniskirt to get to the “good stuff”. Don’t make it too available. Underneath you should be pantiless. If he’s daring enough to get his hand up that far, he should be able to get at the “goods”.
2. Maximize the sexuality of your thighs. Freshly shaved (or better still – waxed) is essential. I wax my legs, then sleep with my thighs wrapped in towels smeared with Jergens Aloe skin cream the night before. This turns the skin into baby soft silk.
3. Feel is important, but so is appearance. The chikans scope out their targets on the platforms of the subways. They position themselves behind the target waiting for the train, then pack behind her in the subway car. Your legs have to exude “availability” and “seductiveness” at a distance. Pumps will make your legs look longer than they are, and will arch your butt upwards into a submissive posture, further triggering his subconscious rape fetish. Also, I noticed this type of male is most aroused by thighs that are slightly on the chubby side (but not fat), rather than the Kate Moss look. I don’t know why that is, but it is.
4. Act aloof. Act stoned, preoccupied, daydreaming, ill, sleepy, or anything that projects an image that you will be easily unaware.
5. Stand with your legs angled open. This further projects sexually submissiveness, and will titillate the chikan with the prospect of a possible grope at butt or pussy.
Do all this and you will be a magnet for the chikans. During rush hour on the NYC subway at 59th street (my favorite venue for this type of fun) there will be about 5-8 of these guys in the crowd. Their entire purpose for being there is frotteurism. They ride this line (59th to 125th) back and forth between 8:00 and 10:00 AM and between 4:00 and 6:30 PM. For the most part, they look like regular guys, but there are a few things that might clue in who they are. He will be standing behind you close enough that he can follow you onto the train without anyone getting between you. He will also be trying to look more inconspicuous than everyone else. He will probably have one hand in his pants pocket. Many chikans have a cut-out pocket through which they can masturbate. And he probably will be glancing down at your legs a lot. Just keep pretending not to notice any of this, and don’t acknowledge his presence in any way.
B. On the train
1. Chikaning is always done standing up. The best place to stand is at the center pole. There, you can hang onto the pole with both hands raised above your head, and rest your head on your shoulder. Keeping your eyes closed and maintaining a blank expression will give the illusion that you’re either sleeping or nodding off.
2. Stand with your legs open wide enough so that a hand can easily between them all the way to the vagina.
3. Chikans usually position themselves behind you. At first you’ll feel one fingertip on your thigh, and it will appear intermittently. Keep your eyes closed, and don’t show any indication that you feel anything.
4. Your “unawareness” will encourage him to escalate. You’ll be surprised how quickly he’ll get his whole hand on your leg. At first it will be the back of his hand. He does this in case you snap out of your oblivion. It’s easier to pretend the touching was accidental if it was done with the back of the hand. Soon, however, he’ll be feeling you up with an open hand.
5. At this point you just keep your eyes close and your face blank and enjoy how he gratifies himself off your body. In many cases the hand will go up your skirt. American chikans rarely take out their penis, but they frequently jerk off through a pant pocket. On very crowded trains, some of them will actually press up and pump against your backside to induce orgasm.
In Tokyo or Beijing you WILL be touched under the skirt. That’s just common procedure. And in some cases you will have a bare penis on your legs under your skirt.
In Part 4 I will introduce you to an interesting Chinese couple who live the chikan lifestyle as a major part of their sexuality.
