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Dogging Posted on June 4, 2012, in , with Comments Off

 

 

galanga I am a woman who loves dogging. I’m admittedly not normal. And I’m happy this website has a “dogging” section. But I’m confused what you’re idea of dogging is. Just on the first page alone of the “Dogging” section on this website, there’s the picture of a woman masturbating on a couch, the guy who’s looking for a woman to go to his private hotel room, the guy who thinks dogging is sucking cock, the black guy who thinks dogging is about hung black cock, the guy who thinks dogging involves throwing a Frisbee, and couple who thinks dogging is another name for cheating on your spouse. Dogging, at least from the common point of view, is all about the perverts that hide in the bushes and watch … and jerk off. It’s all about the torture of them being insanely horny. It’s about desperate cock and about how a woman can discharge that desperation. When I go dogging I start by putting on a very salacious show with my male partner, but then I go behind the treeline and allow the perverts to get off on me – the ones who were lucky enough (or perhaps smart enough) not to jerk off to completion. Dogging addresses a rape fantasy … for both the women and the men. The woman just bends over and takes whatever happens. She stays motionless and available. She’s a provider not a participant. Obviously not something for normal women. And the type of men you’ll find at a dogging site are not normal either. They are not sport fuckers. They don’t do this for fun. They do this because they are driven by a force normal men will never understand. Nothing about sex with them is normal. This ilk of pervert cannot withstand the intensity that follows penetration. No, your vagina is not a source of fun for him. It’s a gushy mass of biology that has the mysterious power to drain a lifetime of pent up torment so in need of release that he has to spend every second following penetration fighting for one more second … one more second. When you feel that cock slide up into your guts, you know what you are. You’re that high school girl that he watched send her boyfriend to paradise earlier that day. You’re the drunk woman he was able to feel up without her knowing it as she stammered to the parking lot. You’re the 13 year old neighbor that’s been the focal point of his masturbation fantasies since he first discovered her through that little slit where her bedroom curtains didn’t close all the way. You’re his 8 year old niece whose skin he looks for every excuse to touch, even if just for a split second. You are the most unspeakable taboo imaginable … and you can feel it. You can feel the taboo as pervert cock reaches up into your guts like a famished man mustering his last morsel of energy to reach for an oasis … and it’s a thrill like nothing you’ll ever feel with a normal man. And when the end comes for him and reduces him to a quivering blob struggling to catch his breath, another gets behind you … and the magic repeats – again and again and again. And THAT’S what dogging is all about.

June 5, 2012 at 1:54 pm #699109 QUOTE Anonymous 0 Posts

Hey galanga[/b:93ce2ba1d6], which do you rate the better experience, x-rated theatres, Dogging, or on-premise swing clubs. You’ve written eloquently on each, but which is your preferred way of shutting and getting off? Very curious here.

June 5, 2012 at 2:50 pm #699110 QUOTE galanga 0 Posts

Gabanga – I love your handle. How did you come up with it? Anyway, my favorite venue is, and has always been, the adult theater. Dogging (which used to be called perving) is next. I used to like swingers clubs, but not anymore. I rarely go. Maybe twice a year.

June 5, 2012 at 6:18 pm #699111 QUOTE

BigBoyKewl 0 Posts I think that I have one of those throbbing cocks… I love watching dogging porn and I have seen a beautiful couple performing oral on each other behind the treeline at Morningside Park. My cock instantly got rock hard, harder than normal, and I found myself overwhelmed with sexual energy and tension. The couple caught me watching and they were startled…. I felt like such a pervert and my fantasy dwindled away as quickly as my hard cock did! I still fantasize about meeting a woman in a park, or public sex who wants cock. Galanga, your story made my heart pound and my cock throb to the point of giving me a pre-cum stain through my shorts… Where can I tame this desire and would you like to take my dogging virginity?

June 5, 2012 at 10:18 pm #699112 QUOTE galanga 0 Posts I am flattered, BoyKewl, that you would wish to lose your dogging virginity to a fat old bag like myself when there are so many hot young girls into this today. But the best place in Toronto you already mentioned – Morningside Park. There’s dogging going on there about once or twice a week, but you have to walk around and look for it. Another good place is Ross Lord Park. If you’re in a really sleazy mood, you can try the Metro Theater or the Swingshift Theater. They are XXX theaters that are occasionally frequented by so-called “cumsluts”. I never liked that word. I find it a derogatory way of referring to something beautiful. But that’s what we’re called.

June 7, 2012 at 2:26 pm #699113 QUOTE

Perverted_Pair 0 Posts I have to ask the question is this done with protection? The idea that dozens of strange men are coming up and penetrating you without a condom, as hot as it sounds, also sounds very dangerous. I would wonder if instead of Cum Slut you would be more of an STD Vending Machine.

June 7, 2012 at 9:59 pm #699114 QUOTE galanga 0 Posts

Perverted: Indeed the cumslut fetish is only effectively satisfied bareback. Now, in my 6th decade of life, I don’t need a self-appointed moralist lecturing me on the dangers of unprotected sex. I’m aware of them and I accept them. So if you next reply is a need to call me “stupid” or “foolish”, then keep it to yourself. What I do is a LOT less dangerous than rock climbing, white-water rafting, or sky diving, but you would never call anyone “stupid” or “foolish” for those recreational activities. That’s because simple minds have always viewed women’s sexual excitement as optional … and even silly. As for me (or any of the other women involved in this) being an “STD vending machine”, you’re just plain wrong. First of all I get tested twice a year, probably more than most swingers, and in my 30+ years of indulging my cumslut fetish, I have never tested positive for anything. I do, however, know a woman who lost an eye playing squash and a man who was left permanently in a wheelchair after a rugby game. Now, just to point out the hypocrisy of the self-appointed vanguards of swinger etiquette, swingers love to pontificate on how religiously they use condoms, and direct very insulting words towards people (especially women) who prefer bareback. However, I can tell you first hand that most (is not all) of these same men will fuck bareback if given the opportunity … and if their wives are not watching. At a swingers party or on-premise club, once a woman is seen taking it bareback, she gets a beeline of guys looking for their opportunity to sneak one with her. Especially laughable (and addressing your “strange men” comment) are the couples that say “we only go bareback with people we know” – as if you knowing them somehow inoculates them from viruses. So let’s keep this happy and exciting topic happy and exciting … and try to restrain your need to make it a downer.

June 7, 2012 at 11:19 pm #699115 QUOTE

Perverted_Pair 0 Posts I have no intention of wheeling any insults your way I promise. Nor will I try and be the morale police. I will for the record though, state that those rock climbers that use no safety equipment, just chalk and hang upside down on rocks thousands of feet in the air might be a lil foolish and maybe even stupid. But they know better than I, and your experiences in this topic far outweigh mine. AND yes, given the chance, I have most certainly slid it in bareback because as a dude it just fucking feels better. The blood leaves my big head for the little one and I know I am playing Russian Roulette but better judgement loses out in the heat of the moment. No doubt virtually every dude I know agrees and faces the same challenges. I would however say that in your 60+ years on the planet, allowing guys in the dark to come out of the tree line one after another after another after another night in and night out, to have managed to stay disease free, you must be doing something right, like praying or feeding the homeless, donating your hair for cancer patients or something else that the universe deems so wonderful and fantastic that it has spared you even the most insignificant of STD. Hell my first one came when I was like 20, Tricamonis or something like that I think it was called. Then a few years later, a bout with Chlamydia. Girls I knew well, and dated and had unprotected sex with. So again, no criticism against you. Yes there are thousands of dudes that I am sure will line up for what is admittedly a very hot fantasy. I would just think it would be a good idea for the females in the equation to exercise a little bit of caution and be even a little picky over who gets to enter their most prized possession. Because despite your unblemished track record statistics out there are frightening. And if a heroine addict stumbles up behind you, all dirty and skinny etc and you don’t see who is sliding it in, well hell, even Mother Teresa would eventually step on a land mine.

June 7, 2012 at 11:28 pm #699116 QUOTE

dynamite 0 Posts Go to the chat room right now Galanga

June 7, 2012 at 11:39 pm #699117 QUOTE dynamite 0 Posts or check your messages

June 8, 2012 at 7:30 am #699118 QUOTE 26.2 27 Posts Galanga, you choose what you do don’t let anyone mess with you. I just wish that I could be there when you are in the mood. I am out of the country but I am interested in how this dogging thing works. How many guys at one session have you allowed the pleasure. I don’t think that anyone has heard of it in France.

June 8, 2012 at 6:31 pm #699119 QUOTE RoundAndSoft 0 Posts Hi Galanga, great post! I’ve been really wanting to try dogging since…I was going to say since I first heard the term about 7 or 8 years ago…but really that was just finally putting a label on something I’ve wanted since I was that kid next door you talked about. The question of condoms raised by gabanga is one I’ve not been able to find an answer for. And I have a couple more. So: 1. With your decades of experience (jealous!), could you tell me if any guys dog with condoms? It’s really one of the few things holding me back. I crave being that provider, but for a number of reasons, want guys to use protection. 2. Do you think if I were to go dogging and “require” the guys to use condoms that they would? (I’d provide them.) 3. From a safety perspective, would you consider it safe to go on your own without a (male) partner along? I’m a single woman, so unless I could convince a friend to go with me…! 4. What sort of police presence have you seen in the parks? Thanks!

June 8, 2012 at 9:11 pm #699120 QUOTE galanga 0 Posts

Hi RoundAndSoft. Here are my answers to your questions. Others may have better answers for you. 1. I have never seen a single guy pull out a condom at a dogging site. The reason is not because they were planning on bareback sex, but because they were never planning on sex. The men in the woods aren’t there expecting a woman to show up. They are there primarily to jerk off while watching the teens get carried away in the lovers lanes. So they are totally unprepared for what you’re going to hit them with, both condom-wise and emotionally.

2. I’m sure these men would be delighted to fuck you anyway you wish. They’d be delighted just to touch you while they jerk off.

3. I would not consider it safe to go dogging at night with or without a male partner. During the day, I would only go with a male partner.

4. I don’t recall ever seeing police walking around any isolated or desolate areas of a park. There are lots of times when the cops cruise around the parking lots, but I’ve never seen one walk into the woods. What you’ll find is that these men are simultaneously out of control … and timid. As long as you let them, they will grope every square inch of exposed skin, and penetrate anytime they can reach it. But as soon as you say “ok, enough … back off”, they do. Nevertheless, you should bring a trusted male partner with you.

kinkybicpl 7 Posts Hi everyone, we have been reading the posts and we love the kinkier side of sexual pleasure. We have been to Swingshift as well as the Metro and had a great time. Never know who will be there or how many. Dogging is a big turn on for us but since we dont live in Toronto we dont have much opportunity but we cum to TO when we can. This summer we have decided th do lots more dogging and would luv to meet others who have the same passion. Galanga, we love your posts and can’t agree more with your outlook. The lady here is not fixed so still can get pregnant so we unfortunately have to ask for condoms for vaginal sex. She is so looking forward to the day where we are bareback for good, yes there are risks but like said above…life is full of risk..lets live everyday and enjoy it. Would luv to hear back from others into this kind of fun.

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