I believe a swinger is neither a single or couple. A swinger is someone whether it be male, female, or couple who likes sex, pure and simple sex. I myself am single, and bi and like sex with either male or female or both. A couple who has sex usually does...  read more »I believe a swinger is neither a single or couple. A swinger is someone whether it be male, female, or couple who likes sex, pure and simple sex. I myself am single, and bi and like sex with either male or female or both. A couple who has sex usually does it for love, whether it is a male male, female female or a male female couple. Just my opinion...