I met the lady through LinkedIn and invited her to post links to her blogspot here. When I noticed your comments above Sandra I wrote to her and she replied saying that she had started a new job and would be back in time.

It's been some time, I don't think the lady will be back...

And that's all she wrote. Have not seen Bowchickawowow on here since June 2 and, from what I can see, even her blog contains no content after that date. If you are reading this, Bowchichawowow, we'd love to know you are still out there and having a great sexual time.

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Want to last longer in bed? This week's blog is all about tips and tricks to help you with that. 

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Love your blogs. Is there some way to turn off the action graphics? I am easily distracted and find it hard to read with all that stuff going on. LOL

MMMMMuuuuaaaahhhh! This weeks blog hot off the presses and don't forget to listen tonight at 9:00 est on blog talk radio :) 

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I won't be doing the radio show this week due to technical problems. However, I do have the newest blog topic up this week all about mouth hugs! Not sure what that is? Check out this weeks blog :) 

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Well thanks :) I also do a blogtalk radio program every Sunday night at 9:00 eastern standard time as well :) 

Just read some of your blogs. Not only informative but humourous! Made me smile first thing this morning. Thanks and I advise others to check these blogs out.

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Very nice 911 and the writing too.

Nice use of Dick.

Virtual, damn I am just an old fashioned gal

You know the kind who wants to take a cock in her mouth slowly

Feel the ridges in the skin

Trace them slowly with my tongue

Then move up to the head

Swirl, lick, taste

Suck it right down my throat

While humming and singing

Why?

I just love cock

But the best part is when you scream

And you will scream you know

Then I get my prize

 A hot load in my mouth

I swallow...........ahhhhhhhhhhhhh!

Then kiss you deeply!

Virtual.......

I like reality 

So pass the word around to all your friends. This site needs more people.

Het DarkSecret911, how about showcasing your writing skills here. This site is still very new. (it was launched officially on Feb 1st., 2013) So, we need CONTENT and I am not a fussy guy. Please write about your bad experiences at HH, we used to own it and are sorry o see the decline. Write about anything that pleases you!

 Also can I sign on for your virtual sex ed. class?

Flower Power thank you for leading me here.

HH is not a friendly place to a working woman.

You would think that swingers would be more tolerant, not on HH>

Thank you

I agree, it is a reflection of David & Ruth experience . Hope to get to know more people on here and have fun.

This site is very people friendly. It's been nothing but a pleasure to be here.

Dropping bye to say hi and have seen you on HH before . I feel this site that David & Ruth have started is more people friendly.

Good luck and welcome.

Hi

I am a newbie also an Escort.

As strange as it seems I am working my courage up to attend the club at the end of April start of May.

I was on HH but asked a question about condoms and was attacked.

I was then directed here by a kind person.

I also write, porn and articles on different aspects of sex, my latest article is "The Clit Is Not Behind The Kneecap".

I worked in the teaching end of sexual education for 20 yrs.

I am sure there is a place to print it here.

If you send me your pic I prefer face pics, not cocks

I like men of all ages

Plus I want to try a couple and a woman

I love to experiment, but I hate pain.

Drop by and say HI

Hi all :) New here... sorry if posted in wrong forum

My experience and advice in this lifestyle to newbies is always this. Whether you are alone or starting out as a couple ALWAYS be true to yourself and communicate. Also.. Meet and Greets are always a great low pressure way of asking a lot of questions to a lot of experienced people. A not on premise place for people to mingle and talk and you know they are there for the the same reasons you are. No guess work.  Listen to what they have to say and go with your instinct.. it is usually right. 

Couples - If you are exploring the possiblity of going to a club or house party establish boundries and rules. Something you are both comfortable with. Like.. We are just going to watch and make out with each other. Then next tme maybe a little soft swap only... meaning just a lot of touchy feely, finger and maybe even a little oral but no full blown insertion sex with other people in the same room. See how you feel about it and communicate and for gawd sakes LISTEN!!! Always respect and abide by the boundries that you and your partner have made for each other. After all... I truly believe although man kind was not designed and hardwired to be monogomous sexually we were defiently designed to be monogomous emotionally to our mate.

Ladies - If your starting out for the first time it can always be a little intimdating going into an environment like that. But remember these people have been doing this for awhile and they don't want to scare you off. They will respect your boundries. If they don't.. your not at the right party and get the hell out of there. Again go with your insticts. They are there for a reason. But don't confuse excitement with Flight or Fight either. When mingling do not be afraid to tell people this is your first rodeo. Most people will take you under their wing and take it slow and never go past your comfort level. Let them know what your curious about and what you would like to see or try. They will be more then accomadating. You are after all the center of attention most times at these parties. And if your bi-friendly OMG you are the elusive Unicorn! A term coined by this community as a Single Bi - friendly female in the lifestyle. Why?! Because we are almost non exsistant. Almost mythical like the Unicorn itself!

Guys - Yeah well single guys in this lifestyle I am afraid to say are just the opposite to a single lady in the lifestyle.. more like the dreaded Plague! Which is really a shame because I know a lot of single guys in the lifestyle who know what it is about and are not just there to get their rocks off and rude and inconsiderate like a bunch of horny teenaged horn dogs. My advice to single men who want to get into the lifestyle... find yourself a sponser.  This means finding a single female (Unicorn, yeah good luck with that...lol) or more likely a couple looking for another male for some MFM fun. Once these people trust you enough and get to know you then you can approch them about taking you to a club or house party. Most clubs and house parties will accept single men (usually at the couples donation fee price) as long as they are sponsered. This is an assurance to the host of the club or party that if you become inappropriate that the sponser will be held responsible and usually banned along with yourself if you do. Harsh I know but a fact of life in this lifestyle I'm afraid. You can also look to join some Gang Bang groups or Fantasy fulfill groups who are sometime looking to fill an open position in their group as well. 

I get excited just thinking about putting my hand on a strangers thigh. What a hot way to get to know someone, sexually of course.

We were all new to this at one time. That first step is the hardest but need not be complicated. You've already decided, alone or together, that you want to at least take a peek into the lifestyle to see if it is for you.

The next question to ask is what your comfort level is. Do you like a lifestyle bar scene or a more intimate setting or a one-on-one meeting (or two on one or two on two or whatever...lol)? One easy and less intimidating way is to simply post a picture of yourself on here and sort through the replies. Men....we know you have a dick. Women like a face picture, too. Trust me, you will get more replies to a non-dick pic. You will have lots of opportunity later to show them the that. Then it is all up to you and the people you meet. Sometime, what happens just happens and no one can instruct you on it. I can't tell you how to make the first move, although I have been notorious for getting a party started on occasion . Remember, those you are with want the same thing as you do.

I find that one of the easiest ways to signal someone that you are open to the start of some play is to simply sit closer to the them and place a hand on theirs or on their thigh. It is amazing to feel a person relax under your touch, which signals they are open to slightly more. If you are part of a couple, the excitement at seeing your partner initiate the play can make it easier for them to start in as well. Soon it becomes contagious and, well, things start to heat up pretty fast!

Don't be afraid. This is the most fun you will ever have! I look back on my 15 years of swinging (yes, I still like calling it that) as some of the best of my life.

As always, No Means No. But you will more likely be saying plenty of "Yes.Yes.Yes" (along with a lot of "Oh, god"!)

when can a guy meet ladies at the club house? is there a fee ? how much is the fee?

I have also found house parties a great way to meet BBW's as many feel more comfortable in a home situation then in a club (meat markets don't often appeal to them) I have also found it much easier to chat myself at house parties then clubs as you don't have to battle the loud music and usually the host of the party will gladly introduce you to the right people if you give them a hint of what you are looking for!

We have found private parties to be one of the best places to approach people. It's a different comfort level in a small crowd.

Finding them isn't that hard to do if you are already using websites. They are often posted on them.  Another alternative is to get into a lifestyle chat room, start the topic and use results from that. 

You mentioned BBW's who are into the lifestyle as your primary choice at the moment. Are you in the Toronto area? If so, try Menage a Quatre (also known as M4) on Lakeshore. Last time we were there, there were numerous single BBW's. Approaching people could be as simple as saying "Hi" and then have a question ready to ask (like you did here) as an ice breaker to conversation.

As newbies we have no idea how to approach people or where to find people who are into the lifestyle besides websites such as this or swingers clubs. My fiance and I are looking for sexy bbw's who are into the lifestyle and if there are bbw theme nights? Can you possibly lend a helping hand?

We were all 'newbies' once. There will be a lot of questions, even after you have been there and done it for a while. Come to this forum to ask anything. There are no silly questions. I have been in the lifestyle for 15 years and I am sure there are others who will read your post and pipe in with their own opinions or experience on the topic.