The Chikan Fetish - Part 3
By: galanga
Written on May 30th, 2011
Ok, we covered the psychology of the male frotteur in Part 2, so now, girls, let’s have some fun with these guys. Any large, crowded city will have frotteurs riding the subways. New York City has a lot of them, especially on popular rush hour lines. However, a trip to Tokyo or Beijing is warranted if you really want to indulge your passive rape fetish. In these cities, chikaning is so out of control women have come to accept it as part of riding the subways. Combine that with the Asian cultural tenet that women be sexually timid, and you have a frotteur’s dream. For very sensitive women, there are “women only” subway cars. In NYC a frotteur will go as far as feel your legs us, but usually stop at the hemline. In Tokyo the chikans will usually go up under the hemline, and some of the bolder chikans will actually take out the penis and stroke it along the girls’ legs.

Although most people can understand how some men can get off on sneaking free feels on girls, it is generally harder to understand how women can get off by being the “victim” of such molestation. Indeed, the female side of this fetish is very rare compared to the number of men involved. Psychologists call this “gregomulcia”. And like all fetishes, having gregomulcia satisfied can get you off big. Let’s dig a little deeper into what frotteurism and gregomulcia is all about.

The frotteur, or chikan as they are sometimes called, has a form of “rape fantasy” from the male point of view. They get off on feeling you up in a sneaky manner such that you aren’t aware of the “molestation”. They get off on escalating the groping as far as your unawareness will allow. So if you’re a female with a complimentary “rape fetish”, you can get a lot of excitement out of an encounter with a chikan … if you do it right – and doing it right means feeding into the psychology of their fetish. So, if you haven’t already done so, I urge you to read Part 1 of this post. Also, if you might be interested in this form of recreational sex, read my posts on dogging and how that activity relates to the psychology of the rape fetish.

By functionality, chkaning (anonymous frotteurism) is a leg thing. Leg skin is ideal for the chikan for several reasons. First, it is very erotic to touch. Second, in a packed crowd legs are hidden from view. With nothing more than a poker face, a hand can grope up and down a leg without being spotted beneath shoulder level. Third, leg skin has fewer nerve endings than fingers, hands, or face skin, and in the crush of a crowd the sensation of a hand on a leg is easily masked by random motions of the crowd around the target girl. Under the right circumstances a skilled chikan can quickly get an entire hand fully on the back of a thigh without the girl being aware of it. Fourth, the leg is a psychological sexual treasure like no other part of the body, since it transitions from the relative innocence at the knee upwards to the extreme sexuality of the vagina at its upper apex. And the feel of the skin changes steadily as you approach the more erogenous regions, becoming softer, smoother, and warmer. Moreover, there is the added psychological kick of having to “invade” the girl by having to move up under her skirt to get to those regions, greatly contributing to the excitement of the chikan’s rape fetish.

General principle – the more you play into HIS rape fetish, the more exciting it will be for YOU. So always remember this basic principle – you must never let on that you know what he’s doing. Always allow him to think that you are oblivious to his “molesting” you. Keeping this ruse while posturing yourself into the ultimate of sexual availability will drive him to an arousal level approaching insanity, and YOU will feel this excitement.

Ok, so the trick is “posturing yourself into the ultimate of sexual availability” without letting on that you are doing so deliberately. And here’s how you do that using the subway as the venue. You’ll need to pick a subway line that’s popular with chikans. My favorite is the NYC A-express between 59th and 125th street. During morning and afternoon rush hours this train is packed like sardines and loaded with chikans.



New York City subways can get very crowded during rush hour


A. Before getting on the subway car

1. First you need the proper attire. Miniskirt with bare legs will do the trick. Don’t worry about accessing breast skin because all chikan action is necessarily waist down. But not too short. He has to be required to dare to reach up under the miniskirt to get to the “good stuff”. Don’t make it too available. Underneath you should be pantiless. If he’s daring enough to get his hand up that far, he should be able to get at the “goods”.

2. Maximize the sexuality of your thighs. Freshly shaved (or better still – waxed) is essential. I wax my legs, then sleep with my thighs wrapped in towels smeared with Jergens Aloe skin cream the night before. This turns the skin into baby soft silk.

3. Feel is important, but so is appearance. The chikans scope out their targets on the platforms of the subways. They position themselves behind the target waiting for the train, then pack behind her in the subway car. Your legs have to exude “availability” and “seductiveness” at a distance. Pumps will make your legs look longer than they are, and will arch your butt upwards into a submissive posture, further triggering his subconscious rape fetish. Also, I noticed this type of male is most aroused by thighs that are slightly on the chubby side (but not fat), rather than the Kate Moss look. I don’t know why that is, but it is.

4. Act aloof. Act stoned, preoccupied, daydreaming, ill, sleepy, or anything that projects an image that you will be easily unaware.

5. Stand with your legs angled open. This further projects sexually submissiveness, and will titillate the chikan with the prospect of a possible grope at butt or pussy.

Do all this and you will be a magnet for the chikans. During rush hour on the NYC subway at 59th street (my favorite venue for this type of fun) there will be about 5-8 of these guys in the crowd. Their entire purpose for being there is frotteurism. They ride this line (59th to 125th) back and forth between 8:00 and 10:00 AM and between 4:00 and 6:30 PM. For the most part, they look like regular guys, but there are a few things that might clue in who they are. He will be standing behind you close enough that he can follow you onto the train without anyone getting between you. He will also be trying to look more inconspicuous than everyone else. He will probably have one hand in his pants pocket. Many chikans have a cut-out pocket through which they can masturbate. And he probably will be glancing down at your legs a lot. Just keep pretending not to notice any of this, and don’t acknowledge his presence in any way.

B. On the train

1. Chikaning is always done standing up. The best place to stand is at the center pole. There, you can hang onto the pole with both hands raised above your head, and rest your head on your shoulder. Keeping your eyes closed and maintaining a blank expression will give the illusion that you’re either sleeping or nodding off.

2. Stand with your legs open wide enough so that a hand can easily between them all the way to the vagina.

3. Chikans usually position themselves behind you. At first you’ll feel one fingertip on your thigh, and it will appear intermittently. Keep your eyes closed, and don’t show any indication that you feel anything.

4. Your “unawareness” will encourage him to escalate. You’ll be surprised how quickly he’ll get his whole hand on your leg. At first it will be the back of his hand. He does this in case you snap out of your oblivion. It’s easier to pretend the touching was accidental if it was done with the back of the hand. Soon, however, he’ll be feeling you up with an open hand.

5. At this point you just keep your eyes close and your face blank and enjoy how he gratifies himself off your body. In many cases the hand will go up your skirt. American chikans rarely take out their penis, but they frequently jerk off through a pant pocket. On very crowded trains, some of them will actually press up and pump against your backside to induce orgasm.

In Tokyo or Beijing you WILL be touched under the skirt. That’s just common procedure. And in some cases you will have a bare penis on your legs under your skirt.

In Part 4 I will introduce you to an interesting Chinese couple who live the chikan lifestyle as a major part of their sexuality.

I Love Dogging

The Chikan Fetish - Part 2
By: galanga
Written on May 30th, 2011
In Part 1 I discussed the “chikan fetish”. Chikaning is rampant in Tokyo and Beijing, so much so that women have simply accepted unwanted groping as part of life in these cities. But how does a man become a chikan?

Pubescent boys are naturally curious about the “feel” of girl skin. They crave it at an age when they haven’t started getting it. They masturbate to imagined fantasies of its texture, its warmth, the softness of the flesh under it. Having not yet actually felt it at this young age, their fantasies tend to be larger than life. The imagine the feel of a thigh or a breast is enough to bring them to orgasm.

Masturbation reinforces this subconscious misconception though a process called “respondent conditioning”. The boy associates the fantasy of touching a girl’s thigh or breast with the climb to orgasm. Although during masturbation the actual stimulus is the stroking of the penis, the boy suspends reality choosing to focus on the more psychologically titillating fantasy. After many years of this, the boy’s brain has been conditioned to associate the touching of a girl’s thigh or breast with the reward of climbing to orgasm.

Most boys grow out of this at about age 14 or 15. This is when their interest in girls starts to incorporate social aspects. Masturbation fantasies focus less on sexual acts and more on loving interactions, and many boys will start dating at that age. However, some boys, particularly those with low social skills or low self image, become addicted to the pleasure of masturbation using the “wonder” of girl skin as fodder. As the hormones of puberty increase, the addiction increases. By about age 19 or 20, these boys are now fully conditioned to associate touching thighs and breasts with orgasm.

Why thighs and breasts? Pussy, ass, even lips are considered more erogenous, right? Well, yes, but these boys don’t know that. Societal norms preclude women from walking around with ass and pussy exposed. So women dress to flaunt thigh and breast skin, and society ingrains in a boy’s head that this is “sexy”. Boys can see the texture, the smoothness, the shape, and even how these properties change on the journey from the knee upwards, into a region beyond their imagination. Pussy is something incomprehensible to them.

Since thigh skin covers more surface area than breasts, women expose as much below the waist as possible. Moreover, women work hard to make their thighs maximally titillating by shaving them smooth, moisturizing the skin, exercising to remove cellulite and excess fat, etc. Casual fashion dictates clothing that not only expose as much thigh flesh as possible, but are cut to emphasize how accessible this skin is to touch, with miniskirts that flair out at the bottom, or shorts that allow a tiny bit of butt cheek to peek out.

These are the boys that grow into men who grope women in crowded environments such as subways, busses, or outdoor concerts. By adulthood, they are so conditioned to associate feeling up a woman’s thigh with orgasm that doing this becomes the main focus of their sex life. But here’s the catch – the most powerful fantasies are those mixed with an element of reality. These boys never had girls offer anything to them, and it seemed unreal that such an offer would ever happen. So in their masturbation fantasies the thigh touching was forced, hidden, or otherwise without the girl’s consent or knowledge. In the fantasy she was either sleeping or drugged or somehow unaware. When these men eventually find a woman who offers herself, the feel of her thigh is anticlimactic. The reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy, so they resort back to their fantasy, for it never let them down.

Thus, these men thrive on sneaking feel-ups of a woman’s thigh without her consent or knowledge. They begin acting on this at about age 18. The “hunt” for accessible thigh becomes their form of foreplay, and the “sneakiness” becomes as thrilling as the conquest itself. They ride crowded subways during rush hour seeking women wearing short skirts or shorts with bare legs. They use the crush of the crowd to press against the target, then take in her thigh skin with one or two fingers. They use the female’s unawareness to trigger the excitement of their conditioned fantasy, and move higher and higher on the leg as a form of sexual escalation.

The clinical term for this condition is called “frotteurism”. The thrill of an encounter for men with frotteurism is so intense that a small few of them can spontaneously climax just from the touching, especially if he could get his whole hand her thigh without her knowing it. But most of them will need to masturbate while doing it, and most of these men have cut-out pockets in their pants for that purpose. Many of these men induce orgasm by pressing against the woman’s backside while feeling her legs up. This technique is especially suited for packed subway cars, as the rocking motion of the train can act to mask the “pumping” action against the woman’s butt.

The drive to act on this condition is so strong that these men spend all day hunting for a clandestine feel-up, even if it only lasts a half second. Summer is heaven for these men. On a typical summer day, a frotteur will “hit” 10-20 women before allowing himself an orgasm.

As much as they are sexual desperados, frotteurs are rarely dangerous. They are mostly cowards and will bolt at the slightest reaction from the target. For this reason, they can be a safe source of excitement for women with a complimentary fetish, and that is the subject of Part 3.

I Love Dogging

The Chikan Fetish - Part 1
By: galanga
Written on May 30th, 2011
Dogging is a fun sexual sport that’s growing in popularity. It started in the 60s among hippies as a form of rebellion against sexual norms. At that time is was called “perving” and it was the ultimate expression of “sexual freedom”. Perving was when a woman (usually as a couple) went into the woods at lovers lanes and served herself to the perverts that hide there to jerk off while watching couples in the lovers lanes. Perving used “free love” as an excuse, but the real reason people did it was to get the big powerful orgasms offered by perverted taboo sex. Perving died in the early 80s with the AIDS scare, but is now loosely being resurrected under the name “dogging”. I say “loosely” because dogging refers to any activity with the park perverts, from simple exhibitionism to full contact sex, whereas perving was always full-on bareback intercourse with internal cumshot.

Perving (now included in dogging) is intensely exciting, but only for a small fraction of women. Why? Because it appeals to women who have something called a “passive rape fetish”. All rape fetishes involve a woman getting off on her body being used as a sex object. And all rape fetishes involve power transfer. However, in a passive rape fetish, the power is transferred to the woman. She gets off on men getting off on her … but her arousal comes from the power her body has to induce HIS gratification (orgasm).

Passive rape fetishes are usually instilled from childhood sexual exploitation, and arise as a type of defense mechanism. The girl’s brain reinterprets her abuser’s orgasm as defeat, as her victory over him, since that always marked a decisive end to each episode of abuse. And this is an easy misinterpretation. The man/girl encounter is extremely intense for the man, and brings on a rapid orgasm. The man usually has to fight against too quick a climax lest he have little time to enjoy the buildup. The girl can intuitively “feel” that fight in him and her brain protects itself from the helplessness of her reality by making HER feel victorious upon him loosing that fight.

Defense mechanisms are marvelous for enabling a child to cope with hopelessness. Unfortunately, defense mechanisms don’t go away just because they’re no longer needed. For the rest of her life her sexuality will be modulated by the defense mechanism … and defense mechanisms are extremely powerful, more so than sex itself. In many cases, the defense mechanism will taint sex for the adult woman. However, in some cases it will actually enhance the excitement of sex, filling her with amazing thrills upon being used as an object of a man’s gratification. This is the passive rape fetish, and activities like dogging, adult theater sex, and gloryhole sex trigger these thrills to an extreme.

In many cases the passive rape fetish is further enhanced if the man’s gratification is clandestine and sneaky. This is why many hippie women preferred to be stoned when perving, lending a lack of awareness to the sexual feeding frenzy. Indeed, many dogging women act stoned or oblivious for this very reason. However, a more direct, albeit less popular, way of appealing to this fetish is through something called the “frotteurism/gregomulcia symbiosis” – more commonly known as the “chikan fetish”.

Chikan is the Japanese word for pervert, however it has become entirely associated with one specific kind of pervert – the frotteur. A frotteur is a man (usually) who gets off by sneaking hidden feel-ups off girls’ body parts, most commonly their legs. In the old days we used to call these guys “mashers”. In the 50s, mashers predominately struck in movie theaters because the old projectors were not powerful enough to light up the whole theater. The balconies were very dark places popular with kids who went to theater primarily to make out and grope each other. To facilitate said activity, the girls would wear shorts to the theaters where their legs were accessible to the boyfriend … and unbeknownst to them, to the mashers, who were skilled at sneaking free feels off the girls without them knowing it.

A typical masher technique was to sit immediately behind a pair of young lovers in the darkness of the balcony and wait for them to become, shall we say, enthralled with each other. He would then sneak his hand between the seat backs and take in some thigh skin while the girl is distracted by her boyfriend. Unfortunately, as skilled as they were, mashers usually got caught, and by the 60s the practice was rare. Movie theaters are not the best places for frotteurism because the girls are not sufficiently distracted. Even a girl ferociously making out with her boyfriend can discern a third hand on her leg.

Mashers look for two criteria – darkness and distraction. Last year at Disneyland a masher struck on the Tower of Terror ride. This guy sat next to his target and waited for the point when the lights to out and the ride free-falls in pitch black darkness. He then felt up her breast. Unfortunately, he didn’t realize that Disneyland snaps souvenir pictures during the free-fall. The picture, shown below, became an internet sensation when the target woman distributed it freely.



This man just groped that woman's breast in the darkness of this Disney ride


Much better for the frotteur is a dense crowd where being butted against by people is unavoidable and expected. The density of the crowd hides wondering hands below shoulder level eliminating the need for darkness, and its crush eliminates the need for distraction. Mashers have been targeting subways for decades. The NYC subway is a favorite target during rush hours. However, a frotteur’s dream is the Tokyo subway system for several reasons. First, the subways are packed like sardines – literally. There are actually officers hired to pack people into the cars, as shown in the picture below.



Tokyo subways are so crowded that attendents are hired to physically cram people into the cars


Second, Japanese schoolgirls wear uniforms consisting of short skirts and bare legs, and the morning trains are packed with them.



Japanses schoolgirl uniforms are perfect for leg groping


Third, and most importantly, Japanese culture mandates females to be passive – especially where sexuality is concerned. It is considered taboo for a woman to talk about sex, even in reporting unwanted sexual contact. This is why Japan has a reputation for being relatively “rape-free”. Rape is as common in Japan as in New York … but the women don’t report it. And they don’t react to frotteurs. Instead, Japanese women generally ignore the frotteurs. The trains are so densely packed that you literally can’t move. Combined this with Japanese culture and you have a frotteur’s wet dream. Most girls passively allow the frotteurs to feel up their legs and ignore them as long as it doesn’t get too out of hand (no pun intended). Train frotteurism has become so common in Tokyo that such men have a name – chikan.

It is estimated that a typical schoolgirl has a 10% chance of being chikaned on a Tokyo subway during rush hour. Thus, over the school year, literally every schoolgirl will likely be chikaned at least twice a month. Chikaning is illegal in Japan, but in Asian culture it is more socially acceptable to be a male chikan than a female chikan victim who reports it. So chikanning runs rampant in the Tokyo subways. There are signs warning women of popular chikaning areas, and others informing men of the “social disgrace” if caught.



Subway signs warning women of popular chikaning areas


The problem has become so bad that there are even “women only” subway cars.



Women only subway cars are one way to battle the out of control chikan problem in Asian cities


Another venue popular with chikans is the Japanese public pool. These pools are as packed as the subway cars and are ideal for extended groping, as you can imagine from the photo below. Cases have been reported where chikans molested women and young girls in these pools to the point of ejaculation … and those are only the reported cases – probably about 1 in 20. Cases are typically only reported with an actual penetrative rape or attempt thereof. Like the subways, girls in the pools have become so accustomed to the presence of chikans that it is easier to ignore them, even to the point of ejaculation, than to make a fuss over it and risk social stigmatization.



A chikan in the middle of this Tokyo public pool WILL cum


Chikaning has recently spread to most Asian countries, and is now as rampant on the Beijing subway as it is in Tokyo. Chinese woman are even more sexually passive than Japanese woman, and the communist Chinese culture is even less egalitarian. And chikans are becoming increasingly bolder and more daring, consistently groping up under the skirt as high as the vagina. Concerned Japanese anti-chikan groups have started battling chikaning by using cell phone cameras to snap photos of chikans in the act and posting them online, as shown below.



A subway chikan caught in the act




This chikan was caught with his penis out and actually stroking it up and down on the girl's butt cheek




This chikan was caught jerking off against the target's butt


Ok, so now let’s get back to the passive rape fetish. To a woman with a passive rape fetish, a chikan can be a source of fun and excitement. Chikaning is a form of rape, but it’s one that doesn’t involve force or threats. In fact, to a chikan, the girl has all the real power. He’s not trying to exert power over her, but rather to steal a morsel of the power her body has to gratify him, and he must tread carefully so as to not alert her to the theft. This precisely appeals to the passive rape fetish.

Well, since Japan and China are havens for chikans, are they also hotbeds for women using chikans to act on a passive rape fetish? The answer is, perhaps not surprisingly, yes. Although not nearly as widespread as chikans, such women are becoming increasingly common, so much so that they have been given a name – chijo. A chijo is a woman who not only tolerates the chikans, but actually encourages them. Chijos make themselves enticing targets for chikans, and have perfected skills for sending subliminal messages to the chikans to escalate the encounter, sometimes all the way to a brief penetration, without breaking her pretense of unawareness.

In Asian culture, a chijo is the lowest of low. Even a prostitute is held in higher regard, for a prostitute does it for money (something Asians can understand), whereas a chijo does it for her own thrills (something Asians can’t understand). Thus, a chijo must NEVER break the pretense that she is an unaware, non-consenting victim while being chikaned. Even the chikan must not even get a hint that he found a chijo. Psychologically this is part of the excitement. To appeal to a passive rape fetish, the encounter must be clandestine and non-consenting.

In Parts 2 and 3 of this series I will discuss the psychology of the chikan fetish. And in Part 4, I’ll introduce you to a chikan/chijo couple from mainland China that I met at a swingers club.

We first met Galanga, the author of this and some other terrific sex stories on the original Club-Privé website back in 1996/1998 and then according to her at our house parties and dance & sex parties in Toronto on the waterfront and at Sweet Cheeks in Mississauga.

I am reposting this and some other stories by Galanga without her express permission although I'm pretty sure she would be proud to have me display her postings.

We discovered this story/Expose on a site called Experience Project www.experienceproject.com Needless to say I like many others here and across the world am fascinated by dogging stories, as well as, adult theatres and adult theater websites. So here without another word of delay or fardela. . . 

Dogging Sites In Toronto

By: galanga      Written on May 19th, 2011

Here are the two most popular dogging sites in Toronto, Canada (where I live). Both are close to "lover lanes", and both are crawling with perverts who spend all day jerking off while watching kids have sex.

As I described in a previous post, these men only jerk off to completion when they have to leave the areas. They spend hours in a state of extreme arousal and imminent orgasm.

At Ross Lord many of these men, as straight as they are, will leave the area through the "gay trails" so that they could take orgasm in the mouth of a gay man. When a dogging girl shows up, these men congregate at the dogging site for a sexual feeding frenzy.

1. Ross Lord Park

 In Ross Lord Park there are three areas popular with the alternative sex crowd. Two of them are forest trails in which gay men roam looking to give blowjobs to other men. At the far end of the park is an open area surrounded on one side by a river and on the other by a dense forest through which wind the trails mentioned above. In the open area close to the treeline of the forest are a number of little nooks used as lovers lanes by kids from a nearby Catholic high school. Between June and September these nooks are very active averaging about one couple every hour or so. The voyeur/perverts hide in the forrest where they have a very good view into the nooks. At the beginning of summer the kids move a picnic benches into the nooks on which to have full-blown sex. Below is a photo of one of these nooks and the forest in which the perverts hide. The woods just behind this bench is the most popular dogging site in Toronto.

2. Morningside Park

 Morningside Park is way on the outskirts of the city, and that's probably why it's not more popular. Like Ross Lord there is a nearby high school, and the park is used as a lovers lane. Unlike Ross Lord, however, the nooks where the kids go are not easily accessible from the woods, and the perverts can't get as close to them. Deep in the woods is the dogging site.

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i'm sitting tight, standing cross legged, whatever just drooling for the stories. 

thanks for your help

You definitely could use an editor. But thanks for the posting. Here I was thinking you were going to tell us a hot story about the last time you were out dogging. I did some minor editing to your posting hope you don't mind. I haven't figured out to edit the title of your posting But promise to change the DOOGIN title to the better known DOGGING

Hello everyone this forum is for people who love to go dogging. .please share some local spots where you like to go doggin.please don't be specfic, we don't wish to attract people you dont want there (cops hahaha).